Sometimes
we have to do things we don't like.
May
be it might seem to you as righteous when in
the
moment it's have to be done. But then after
you've
done it you might be repenting and
frustrating
about yourself. May be you are
wishing
that if you ever haven't done it.
There
are things it's seems that you like to do.
But
actually after you've done it you will feel, It
would
better you haven't done it.
May
be you have to do it again and again. And feel
If you have not to do it again. Sometimes you've
overlooked your guilt and you've already promised
yourself not to do that again. But
sometimes you have to break your own promises.
Well, after that you won't feel good as everyone have experienced it. Sometimes
we all lose control of ourselves. And letting
our lives flow away without hopes. sometimes
there are moments that feel us it's better
we are never born. May
be you are being hopeless and keep on living if you can turn back the time.
But you want to get
rid of that feeling. You
might wonder how you would be able to bring your self
esteem back.
You
might believing a religion or philosophy. May
be not that you are a believer.
But
I'd like to suggest some tips for you to cherish in your life.
You
can use your religion to bring yourself
alive. And of cause you can also do it without
believing a religion.
We all are human. And we all do mistakes. None of us
are perfect. We do things. But we aren't always
be able to predict it would be a bad resultable
or good. The question is what is good and
bad.
Every
human being in this planet is so
special.
We
all have our own paths. Our own
beliefs.
People do mistakes. But we all deserve
second
chances.
In
these life we all are came here for our own
purpose.
What you have to do is figure out what
is
it.
See life with patience.
We all have
to do
something
for these world.
Many
people let their lives go on as without
control.
Of cause they have reasons for that.
They
might have been cheated, or they might
lost
someone who loved.
If
you believe in God, don't expect anything from
him
for your self. Because he gave the most
valuable
thing to you, you already have it. It's
The
Life. If you keep complaining the god doesn't
love
you. Just think, if he isn't love you he won't
give
you that kind of precious gift for you. If you
need
to show the God how much you appreciate
him,
just use the life he given for you to make
everlasting
happiness. Make your heart a
pleasant
place for the God.
If
you do believe in God or not, you should worth
remember
that you are a special one from these
millions
of species called humans. You have a
unique
soul, that's depends on nothing.
When
you look through your life you will find
there
is nothing you have to be worried.
Have
your own vision.
Here
are some tips. And I hope they would guide you to be
more
alive. And develop your own vision.
Read
books, magazines or use any other sources
you
can get knowledge from. Knowledge is the
way
you can share your thoughts and your
lifetime
events with others. And they will use
them
as their guide factors. There are lot more
experienced
people among us. Keep in touch with
them.
From them you will learn much about life.
Ask
what are the good sensible movies from the
community,
find them and watch them. But don't
let
any movie to corrupt your mind.
(I
would not recommend scary thrillers however)
In
your day today life, many times you have
experienced
that some thoughts come out from
you
naturally. Don't let them disappear. Keep a
notebook
or something with all the time to write
them
down. Write any feeling that would come
up
to you. By this way you will be able to listen
to
your soul.
Time
by time surely you will find your own
vision.
Your own philosophy.
You
might have your loving ones around. Try to
make
them happy. Try to do little sacrifices for
them.
Always
try on new things. Don't be scared to try
things
that you have never done. If great
people
in our history were scared to try new
things,
there would be nothing called inventions
today.
You
can help people who needs aid. That is the
best
thing a one can do in a lifetime. Think
about
the convenience you let them have by
helping
them. And when you get use of helping
as
a habit you will feel heavenly happiness.
Figure
out what are your favorite things. Always
keep
yourself a time for them.
And
the other thing is the Time.
It is the most
valuable
thing we got in our lives. Time will help
you
to figure out difficult things. Time will give
you
more chances. So take your time. Don't
worry,
whatever time you spend is yours. It's all
yours.
Don't let any moment moment pass by
you.
WISHING
YOU A PRECIOUS LIFETIME WITH WONDERFUL MOMENTS
with
love, SHAN DAN JAY
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